Thursday, October 10, 2013

On Any Given Sunday

Brad Sullivan
Proper 22, Year C
Sunday, October 6, 2013
St. Mark’s, Bay City, TX
Jeremiah 32:1-3a, 6-15
Psalm 91:1-6, 14-16
1 Timothy 6:6-19
Luke 16:19-31 


There is a big difference between humility and feeling badly about oneself.  You think rather highly of yourself, realize your many gifts and talents, and still be humble, without pride, arrogance, and a sense of entitlement that often accompanies pride and arrogance.  Pride and arrogance often lead to a feeling that the world should acknowledge one’s magnificence and give them special treatment, make allowances, or bend to accommodate. 

Jesus was telling his disciples not to fall into the trap of price or arrogance with the accompanying sense of entitlement.  We are who we are as Jesus’ disciples and we don’t believe the world owes us anything for being Jesus’ disciples.

During Noah’s soccer game yesterday, another of the dads and I were discussing the soccer tournament which other teams were having this weekend, noting that the tournaments went on to Sunday for those teams which did well.  I said to the gentleman with whom I was speaking that next year, if Noah is still playing soccer, he won’t be playing on the Sunday games.  The gentleman agreed with me; we both felt our kids shouldn’t miss worshipping on Sundays for the sake of soccer. 

I realized later that there was, however, something rather disagreeable in my tone when I said Noah wouldn’t be playing soccer on Sunday.  My words were simple enough, but something in my tone implied that the coach or tournament organizer would be wrong for even thinking about having a soccer tournament on Sunday.  The soccer people should know, I felt, that Christians worship on Sunday, and the soccer people should therefore, I felt, have everything wrapped up before Sunday.  That, my friends, is prideful arrogance and an accompanying sense of entitlement.

As a disciple of Jesus, worship on Sunday is mine to uphold and protect.  Worship on Sunday is my choice to make, my faith to live out.  The soccer organization is not a church.  The responsibility of the soccer tournament organizers is to organize a soccer tournament, not to ensure that I get to worship on Sunday.

We choose to live as disciples of Jesus, and the world doesn’t owe us making our life as Jesus’ disciples easy.  For a long time, Christians kind of imposed our way on those around us.  Most people were Christian in our society, so some of the Christian way of life became the norm.  Even when I grew up, stores were largely closed on Sunday, but what began as disciples of Jesus choosing not to work on Sundays, became disciples of Jesus expecting no one to work on Sundays (except of course the NFL – they were far too entertaining not to play on Sunday).  Parts of our way of life as disciples of Jesus became the norm and therefore easy in our society, and we began to expect society to make our discipleship rather easy, to accommodate our way of life.

Nowadays, however, society largely does not accommodate our way of life.  Sunday in society at large is just another day to work or play and there certainly aren’t accommodations made by most businesses or non-church organizations to allow Christians to worship on Sundays.  Lots of our folks at St. Mark’s have to work many, if not all Sundays.  Folks can always ask, but they can’t exactly demand that their employers allow them time off to come to church.

This bothers many of us, feeling that our jobs and our non-church organizations should know better and should accommodate our schedules as disciples of Jesus, but that is the very feeling of pride and arrogance and entitlement which Jesus warned against.  We are who we are as disciples of Jesus, and the world doesn’t owe us anything for being disciples of Jesus.  Our jobs and other non-church organizations aren’t the church, and they don’t owe us accommodations for us being the church. 

Feeling animosity towards others for not making allowances so that we can worship on Sundays is not a particularly good witness to the love of God in Jesus Christ.  Worship on Sundays is only one part of our faith.  It’s an important part, but we are Christians not only on Sunday mornings, but seven full days of the week.  As disciples of Jesus, we have been taught to live out and proclaim our faith joyfully and confidently, with humility, realizing not all will believe as we believe and we are not going to force them to.  Forcing others to believe or forcing others to accommodate our belief is really a form of cowardice, spurned on by the fear that our faith or way of life will be threatened by others not sharing our faith and way of life.

“God did not give us a spirit of cowardice, [however,] but rather a spirit of power and of love and of self-discipline. (2 Timothy 1:7)  We needn’t fear others now allowing us to live as Christians, because the only ones who can stop us believing or living as Christians is we.  Others can make it difficult for us to live out some parts of our worship life, but they can’t stop us from believing, and they can’t stop us from living out our faith in our daily lives.  Prayer can be silent and can happen anytime, anywhere.  Service to others can be big things or small things and can also happen anytime, anywhere.

Loving God and loving our neighbor requires no accommodation by those around us.  Loving God and loving our neighbor requires “a spirit of power and of love and of self-discipline.”  Our faith is ours to live and to live joyfully.  We needn’t be resentful towards the proverbial soccer organization for scheduling things when we want to be here with our St. Mark’s family. 

It is not the job of the proverbial soccer organization to allow us to live out our lives as disciples of Jesus.  It is our job to live our lives as disciples of Jesus whenever and wherever we are.  If we are worshipping here, we live our lives as disciples of Jesus.  If we cannot be here to worship, then we worship God anyway, wherever we are and live our lives as disciples of Jesus.

As for those of us who can’t be here on Sundays, we pray for them and with them, asking them to pray for and with us, wherever they may be.  As for those who take part in other activities and choose not to be here on any given Sunday, we pray for them and with them, asking them to pray for and with us, wherever they may be.     

That is true discipleship, no feelings of hurt or animosity or resentment towards those who don’t live as disciples of Jesus.  Rather, we live out our faith with love, self-discipline, and humility.  Now there is a good witness to the love of God in Jesus Christ.  We are not owed anything.  We have done only what we ought to have done as disciples of Jesus, joyfully living out our lives with “a spirit of power and of love and of self-discipline.”  Amen.

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