Brad Sullivan
Proper 17, Year C
August 28, 2016
Saint Mark's
Episcopal Church, Bay City, TX
Luke 14:1, 7-14
It’s Dinner, Not a Marriage Proposal
At the very heart of the Gospel, we have God loving humans
as his beloved children. With all of the
beauty and grace with which we were made, with our remarkable capacity for love
and empathy, with our creativity and astonishing drive to invent, to imagine,
to overcome obstacles, and with our courage to band together in the face of
hardships, God loves us, and his love for us is at the very heart of the
Gospel.
God loves us for who we are, and with the list of human
attributes I just gave, we can see why.
We are creative, loving, generous.
We band together to support each other.
We weep when others weep; we rejoice when others rejoice.
We are also terribly flawed.
We can be mean spirited, cruel.
We commit horrible atrocities and acts of violence, hatred,
degradation. We fight, argue, see the worst
in others, refuse to offer or receive forgiveness, and can be generally, rather
grumpy. We do all of these things and
more, and still God loves us. While the
terrible things we do break God’s heart, and while there is judgment given by
God for how we treat each other, God also understands that we only break each
other out of our own brokenness. God
sees us as lost when we harm each other and believing Jesus’ words on the
cross, God forgives us, for we do not know what we are doing.
God loves us not in spite of the bad things we do, but
completely irrespective of the bad things we do, and God is constantly teaching
us and showing us how not to do such harmful things to each other. Knowing that if we were going to truly be
able to love each other as God loves us, we would need to become God, and also
knowing that just isn’t possible, God decided to flip that around and become
human instead. God joined himself to us
so that we might be joined to him, and in that joining together of humanity
with God, God has redeemed all of the harmful things we do so that in the
resurrection, in the restoration of all creation, all of the harm we do will be
seen forever as the good we always intended.
God looks at us and sees the beauty. He sees the bad too, but he has redeemed
that. God sees the beauty in us. As holy and exalted as God is, God sees the
beauty in us, lowly humans.
I think that is why Jesus instructed the Pharisee, his
dinner host, to invite the poor, lame, and blind to his feasts, rather than his
friends and those who are well off.
Jesus said, “But when you give a banquet, invite the poor, the crippled,
the lame, and the blind. And you will be blessed, because they cannot repay
you, for you will be repaid at the resurrection of the righteous." There’s something more than a quid pro quo
going on here. I don’t believe Jesus is
instructing people to invite poor and crippled people into their homes so that
they’ll receive a nice fat celestial retirement fund in the sky after this life
is over. While Jesus definitely taught
about reward and punishment for our actions, I don’t believe he was teaching
those who were well off how to be even more well off in the next life. “You that are ahead in this world, here’s how
to become even more ahead later on.” I
don’t think that was his message.
His message was to get us to view each other as God views
us. Like the prosperity gospel of today,
there were beliefs by some in Jesus’ day that those who were not well off,
those whom tragedy had stuck, were afflicted because God was angry at them,
didn’t like them, or they weren’t good enough people to have earned God’s
favor. Jesus was never much of a fan of
the prosperity gospel or any such belief that we have to earn God’s favor or
that the lowly are only lowly because God is angry with them.
Jesus hung out with everybody, the poor and the well
off. He said to his disciples “Blessed
are you who are poor,” Jesus said, “for yours is the kingdom of heaven.” Blessed are you, he said. He was speaking not about the poor, but to
the poor. Jesus declared blessed those
whom many in society assumed were cursed.
Jesus declared as deeply flawed our systems of ascribing blessings and
curses. Jesus declared as deeply flawed
our systems of ascribing righteousness and sinfulness. Jesus sees our hearts and knows how much we
want to be righteous, how much we want to be loved by others and loved by God,
and Jesus sees how much we struggle for that.
Jesus even sees that we often end up putting others down in order to
raise ourselves up.
Jesus’ desire for us is to see ourselves and each other as
he sees us. Jesus’ instruction to the
Pharisee to invite the poor, lame, and blind into his home is not an
instruction to do more righteous, charitable deeds in order to earn a greater
salvation. Jesus instruction to the
Pharisee to invite the poor, lame, and blind into his home is to let the Pharisee
know that he doesn’t have to surround himself with supposedly righteous people
in order to be righteous himself or in order to be seen as righteous by
others.
Accept that your righteousness comes from God’s love of
you. Then invite into your home those
whom you assume are unrighteous, and learn to see them as God sees them, as his
beloved children. Such an invitation is
not an act of charity. Such an
invitation is an act of accepting God’s acceptance, of seeing the beauty of
people as God sees the beauty of people.
Such an invitation is an acceptance of the lowliness, the poverty,
disability, and blindness within each of us, and learning to accept God’s love
of us not only as we want to be, but also just as we are.
Jesus instruction to the Pharisee was all of this teaching,
and it was also an actual instruction actually to invite the poor, lame, and
blind into his home. As James tells us,
faith without works is dead. A great
idea springs up from a teaching of Jesus, but if there is no action to follow
it up, the great idea dies on the vine.
Invite the poor, the blind, and the lame into your
home. That’s a bit of a challenge, I
would think. What do we do, walk around
outside for a time, find someone who we assume is homeless or living in poverty
and say, “You’re poor, aren’t you? I
need to you to come to my home for dinner because Jesus told me to have dinner
with a poor person.” I don’t think
that’s really going to work. The
challenge is to look beyond poverty or disability, to look beyond social
status, to see beautiful human beings, and invite them to dinner.
Inviting total strangers into our homes for dinner still
might be a bridge to far, and possibly weird, so invite folks here. Invite folks to share the meal we share every
Sunday. Further, a lot of folks aren’t
total strangers, they are folks we know from church or work, or other social
circles. Invite them to dinner. Invite not only your good friends, but invite
also those whom you don’t know as well.
Even that might seem a little scary.
What exactly are we committing to here?
Well, I remember some advice Dad gave me back when I was starting to
date. I was afraid to ask a girl out,
partly afraid she’d say “no”, and partly afraid, just wondering what am I
getting into, what am I doing? Dad said,
“Brad, you’re just asking her to go out with you for an evening, it’s not a
marriage proposal. Get to know her more;
see if you like being around each other.”
Get to know other people, Jesus was teaching. Get to know different people. That’s what we get to do at our Bible study
in the parish hall on Friday mornings during breakfast. All kinds of folks come to eat breakfast here
on Friday. Some are well off. Some don’t have much. Some are homeless. Sharing breakfast together, we get to see the
beauty of each other as God sees the beauty of us. That’s life in God’s kingdom. That’s life in the Jesus movement. It’s not as though by inviting new and
different people into our church and into our homes, people would become our
projects. The purpose is not to help or
fix anybody, and it’s not a marriage proposal.
The purpose of the invitation is to learn to love people more fully, and
in so doing, to be able to accept God’s love of us and of others more
fully. Following Jesus’ teaching, living
out the Jesus movement, we find ourselves changed. We find less fear, more love, greater
connection. Living out the Jesus
movement, we find that humans are beautiful.
Flawed, sure, as well as beautiful and beloved. Amen.